11. Be
friendly. Girl like when boys make the first
move. If you initiate conversation, then she'll be all the more willing to keep
it up, even if she doesn't have a crush on you.
2. However, don't stick yourself in the friend zone. Try to be a little flirty all the time, too.
Don't underestimate the power of withdrawal. If she flirts, flirt back,
but keep it short and leave her wanting more. Don't make yourself so
easy to get that she becomes uninterested.
3. Let it spread. Hint to someone close to her that
you're interested. They're bound to tell the girl you're eying! Don't
make it seem desperate, though. You may find out if she already likes
you from a mutual friend! If she does, your work is easy! Just let her
chase you.
4. Compliment her. In case you didn't know, girls like
that! However, don't let her EXPECT the compliments, then it's you doing
the chasing. Also, be sure to compliment the right things. If you don't
know the girl well, just talking about how hot she is will make her
think you're just interested in the physical stuff, and you don't want
that.
5. Hang out with your other friends. Be cool! Let her see you have a social life, but don't be cocky about it, and don't try too hard to be busy or it will show.
Be slightly distant without being rude. 'Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen
DOESN'T work. Many girls will become confused and hurt if you try this,
and may lose interest all together.
6. Hang out in a group. Ask her out on a group thing,
but spend a lot of time with her. She'll think of it as a date
subconsciously if she spends most of the night talking to you.
7. Drop hints. Describe an ideal girlfriend, using a lot
of the qualities that the girl you're talking to has. Don't come right
out and say it, but by dropping hints she'll begin to think of herself
as a good fit for you.
8. Focus on you. Overall, once you've established
yourself as a usual person she talks to, ease back a bit. Don't ignore
her entirely, just try play it cool. Once she realizes you haven't
spoken in a while she'll be missing you, then she'll start messaging you
first and seeking you out. Hence, chasing you. From then on flirt,
sweet talk and play it hot and cold, it'll keep her constantly looking
for approval and attention for you, but you'll hold the power. Just
remember not to stay too distant, or she may think you're too hard to
get.
It's all about balance, you can follow these tips but always remember
just to be yourself. If you're acting like someone that you aren't, she
might think you're either fake or you just like her looks. Girls don't
like superficial guys!
Remember that the point of trying to get her to chase you is not to
stick yourself in the friend zone, but to suggest that you want
something more. If she has a crush on you, she'll especially be keen on
doing this.
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